“And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.”
2 Corinthians 9:8
For those who do not know me, let me tell you a little about me. I have a hard time with this, because sometimes I see my life as nothing spectacular. I am married to a good man with a steady job. I have three healthy, happy boys. I am able to stay at home to raise my children. I used to be a high school math teacher, but have been tutoring since my oldest child was born. I go to church and participate in the things I am able. I attend a Bible Study with my children where I volunteer where I can. I have many friends where I live and a great family. I even have great in-laws. Who could ask for more? I am a reasonably intelligent woman who loves to read and is pretty comfortable talking in front of people when the subject is something I know. I am friendly and enjoy helping others when I can. I try to make others feel welcome. If you ask me, I may tell you that none of this is anything noteworthy, because it comes easily to me. Well, all of it comes easily except being a wife and mother. I feel like a failure at those more frequently than I would like to admit.
The thing is, none of this is ordinary in God’s eyes. It has taken me a long time and a lot of trials to figure this out, but God wants us to be obedient and faithful. Sometimes, this means traveling across the globe for missions work or donating huge sums of money to support God’s work. Usually, however, this means being obedient with the things God has already entrusted to you. Jesus shows us this in the Parable of the Talents. In this story, a master entrusts his servants with 5, 2 and 1 talents respectively. The servants with 5 and 2 come back with double their original amount and the master rewards them. He says, “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!” However, the third servant with one talent buries it in the ground and brings only the original talent to the master. He is angry with the servant for not using what little he had. In the scheme of things, I do not know how many talents I have in comparison with others, but I do know I am expected to use what I have obediently so that God may use it abundantly.
In 2 Kings 4:1-7, we see Elisha demonstrating this principle with a prophet’s widow. When faced with everything she has being taken away, she approaches Elisha for help. Instead of simply miraculously providing the woman with an abundance, Elisha asks the widow what she has in the house. “Your servant has nothing there at all,” she says, “except a little oil.” With that little oil, which the widow saw little value in, God supplied abundantly for the widow in a miraculous way. God wants to do the same for us. Even when it seems like we have so little, God will use it to provide for us abundantly. This promise is contained in 2 Corinthians 9:8, saying “And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.”
This is why God does not want me to look at myself as nothing spectacular, because it does not matter who I am, it matters God can do more than I ever imagined when I am obedient. Let me say that again: it does not matter who I am, it matters God can do more than I ever imagined when I am obedient. Do you have faith in God’s ability to provide? I have to admit, sometimes I do not, but He constantly shows me I have no reason to doubt.
The question remains, what do you have? I believe God is urging me to use my words, both vocal and in print, to accomplish great things. I feel woefully unqualified for this, but I know I can trust Him to provide. God can miraculously multiply the power of my words. All He requires is for me to stop focusing on my ability and start believing in His. As I start to see His blessings unfold, I can look back on past trials and see how I am being prepared for this new challenge. He moved me to various places across the country so that I could see what it was like to be isolated and lonely. This prepared me to be more able to treasure the friends I have and welcome those who may feel as I once did. He allowed me to experience depression and other trials with raising children so I could be empathetic to the struggles others face. He placed “difficult” people in my life so I could learn how to love ALL people in a genuine way. The list could go on, but I hope you see God can use you too.
Where is God leading me? Honestly, I feel a little like Abram in Genesis 12:1 where “The Lord had said to Abram, ‘Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you’.” There is not a road map for the path I must take, but He reveals enough so I can take each step with confidence. Will you follow His lead too?
Jenny said:
This is crazy that so many of us have felt called to share our words. I love the parable you shared- it’s a perfect complement to this week’s readings isn’t it?
Aisha said:
Yes Jenny, it is crazy how so many of us have a similar calling on our lives. God has perfect timing – bringing us all together to encourage each other!
Aisha said:
“but I do know I am expected to use what I have obediently so that God may use it abundantly” – love this!! This line alone spoke so boldly to my heart. Thanks for sharing such a thought provoking post.
mommagracejones said:
“All He requires is for me to stop focusing on my ability and start believing in His.”
What a profound thought. It is not my ability that will get the work done. It will be His ability working in me!!
Thanks for sharing on the Blog Hop today.
Ginny B. - OBS small group leader said:
“You have everything you need to do all that God is calling you to do right now.” Pastor Furtick in Greater
I pray more people realize that “none of this is ordinary in God’s eyes”! I took me a lot of trials to figure that out too. I love that you connected the parable of the talents with this lesson as well.
As for feeling like Abram, don’t forget that this single man waited patiently for 25 years before God fulfilled his promise of being a father to the nations. God works in His timing, but His word is always true. Blessings on your journey dear sister!
Jennifer Newsom, OBS group leader said:
Oh!! This touched my heart so much. I am a stay at home mommy to 4 beautiful kiddos. I left the fast paced world of ER nursing to homeschool my sweet kids. We have so much in common. Referring to the parable of the talents? A section I read OFTEN. We have to let the negative chatter stop. Like Pastor Furtick said, maybe we will influence another Billy Graham, who knows? He has called me home with these blessings and this is our greater thing right now. God bless you!!!
vannettachapman said:
You are a child of the King. Yes? And what a lovely way to express that. I adore your blog, Becca. Keep them coming.
heisthemagnificent said:
Wow..I believe you have great talent. Your blog is beautiful. I am a single Mom and never had the choice to stay at home with my child. You are so blessed that your children can stay home with their Mommy. I think that being a full time Mother would be the hardest job in the world. When my daughter was younger sometimes after a long hard weekend together I would feel so guilty because I would want to go to work on Monday. I really should have wanted to be a good Mom and been sad about bringing her to a daycare facility. Now that God is in my life I really ask him to bless me as a Mother and work with my relationship between my daughter and I. I ask for patience when times are tough and we are making it through our rough times much stronger.
I am a big fan, God Bless all of your beautiful days and nights with your family
Kristin
rportteus said:
Kristin,
Just so you know, there are a lot of moments where I would love to just leave and go have a some time away from children for a while. I don’t think that is something to feel guilty about. It is hard work! As long as we are constantly evaluating our role as mothers in God’s light, we are doing just fine. Your daughter will remember you as a good mother, just like mine will, because you are doing the best for YOUR family! God bless in raising your child. 🙂